Surplus when clearing $900/wk
Surplus when clearing $2,100/wk
Takes, repayment lags & guilt cover
Buffer before bounce/catch-up
Tied to irregular prevailing wage
Variable Net Income
Prevailing Wage & HoursFixed & Contractual Obligations
$2,510/moInterpersonal Drain & LDR Friction
Boundary AuditUnreciprocated financial aid, covered tabs, & guilt-induced bailouts.
Flights, gas, and accommodation to sustain long-distance relationship.
Low vs High Month Velocity
Monthly Net vs OutflowPsychological & Structural Breakdown
Verbatim Boundary Scripts
Action StepsExact phrasing to halt relational financial bleeding without confrontation:
Financial Sanity Audit Snapshot
Detailed itemization of fixed bills, relational leakage, and month-end variance
| Item Category | Frequency | Monthly Outflow | % of Low Income | Boundary Action / Classification |
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