Dear Abby Boundary Planner & Relationship Cost Analyzer

Friendship Diagnostic Audit Inputs

Friend's Name / Moniker

Monologue Duration (per call) 45 min

Minutes spent listening to unprompted continuous stream of talk.

Interruption Frequency 8 / 10

1 = Never cuts in, 10 = Constantly cuts you off or steers back to self.

Emotional Drain Level 9 / 10

Post-call fatigue, dread, and mental exhaustion level.

Reciprocal Listening Score 2 / 10

1 = Zero genuine interest in your life, 10 = Attentive, balanced listener.

Boundary Strategy Mode

Gradual low-contact schedule with strict 15-minute time-boxing.

18%
Relationship Health Index

5.5 hrs
Weekly Energy Drain

+3.8 hrs/wk

Projected Energy Recovery

1:5

Give / Take Balance

Conversation Reciprocity Scale Severe Depletion

Gradual Fade & Time-Boxed Calls

This dynamic reflects chronic one-way ventilation. Implement hard time ceilings and delay response latency to protect mental bandwidth.

Generated Boundary Script

Hey! I only have 15 minutes to catch up today before I have to run...