1. Athlete Profile & Weekly Hours Split
168-Hour Weekly Allocation
Remaining Family Rest: 84.5 hrs
Coach (8h)
Sleep (52.5h)
Academic (18h)
Peer/Play (5h)
Family/Buffer
Friday Social Conflict Resolution
Active Dilemma
Scenario: Best friend's birthday party Friday night vs. 7:00 AM Saturday tournament game across town.
Prescription: Allow attendance with strict 9:30 PM departure cap. Complete car gear prep Friday at 4 PM to safeguard Saturday wake-up.
2. Expenditure & FOMO Filter
Hocevar Core Principle #2
High Risk Spending Verdict
FOMO Trap
High Risk: Showcase Camp flagged as FOMO trap (650 USD exceeds weekly budget cap with low developmental utility)
Weekly Schedule Load
Deficit: 1.5 hrs/night
Warning: Sleep deficit of 1.5 hrs/night below pediatric sports baseline (9.0 hrs target for U14)
3. "Grief vs. Fun" Burnout Index
1.4 : 1 Ratio
Elevated (Grief-to-Fun ratio 1.4:1)
At-Risk Basin
Skip showcase camp, establish Friday party departure at 9:30 PM, protect post-match car ride from performance critique.
Novice Sports Parent: Post-Match Car Ride Rule
Safe Debrief
Say only: "I loved watching you compete today. Do you want to grab food or listen to music?" Do not dissect mistakes or second-guess referee calls during the ride home.
| Opportunity / Item | Cost | Coach Need | Audit Status |
|---|---|---|---|
| Elite National Showcase Camp | $650 | Unverified | FOMO Trap |